Love=Forgiveness

Our pastor has been talking alot about love & forgiveness...I've been thinking about it lately. Do I love even though it is hard too? Do I forgive? If I do not forgive then I have not love...so I am not loving like God has called me to do. How often do people look at me the same way? Have I asked for peoples forgiveness when I needed to most? God forgives me daily...and daily I need His forgiveness...but do I extend that same type of grace/love to others? Hmmm...reality check.